Sexual confusion

Guys ask me for advice. "I met ladyboys at a club and I am really attracted to her but I am concerned that it means I am gay or something. Am I?"
 

Some careful dialogue with the guy usually uncovers the fact that he was very attracted to the         Ladyboy's femininity. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Gay guys are not attracted to those attributes.

Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op ladyboy and is experiencing some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. If it's her femininity, then he's not responding like a gay man would, and thus shouldn't worry about whether he's "turning gay." If the guy can accept that he is attracted to a somewhat different kind of woman and still wants to pursue it, take it just one step at a time.

Take her out to dinner or a movie. Talk to her about whatever, listen to her words. Look into her eyes. Can he get lost in her eyes, as he can with a girl? Can he relax around her and just enjoy being with her, as if she were a real girl? If so, take one more step. Hold hands, kiss her good-night. In other words, treat her like he would any girl date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. Easy!