Are you thinking to make love with Pre-op Ladyboy?

For those men who find themselves attracted to a pre-op ladyboy but wary of the prospect of sex, here's a solution is to think of having sex with a ladyboy as just a plumbing issue. Forget about her penis. The guy has a girlfriend with a simple plumbing issue. There's no pussy, so get over it. What are the options? I'm sure any guy thinking of sex with a pre-op ladyboy woman has quickly inventoried all the places he can stick his cock.

There's something you need to discuss with your lady before it goes any further. It's about that dick.

Are you a straight man having your first sexual encounter with a pre-op ladyboy? She probably expects that you won't show any interest at all in that dick. If you feel the same way, great, and it would be useful to say so. Then just ignore it and move on. If you find that you can't get aroused because of the sight of that dick, end the session. Either get to know her better to lower your anxiety level, or say this isn't for you and terminate the relationship.

Are you a man very much into pleasing your female partner with cunnilingus but are staring at a penis instead? You could be pretty much straight or very bisexual, but if you haven't yet bolted for the exit, congratulations. It's time to be forthright and honest with her.

You might explain that orally pleasing your partner is important to you, and you're OK with touching, stroking or sucking her dick (whether or not it's your preferred thing to do), but you don't want to embarrass her or make her angry. Let her know that all you want to do is give her great pleasure. If she's capable of experiencing that with her penis and is cool with you touching, stroking or sucking it, go ahead.

And ladies, it would be an error to assume that if he's willing to touch or go down on you that he's done it before, so don't assume that he's bisexual simply because of that. Do remember that even gay men had first-time encounters.

If you've never sucked a dick before, you might want to ask her to give you feedback on how you're doing. And if you're suddenly feeling nauseated for engaging in what your family and all your friends would label a very homosexual act...

Did she say she doesn't want you touching it? Then don't and do something else, instead.