I hear a lot of men on dating site who say they want to meet a nice, real ladyboy, but they're tired of all the hookers and cross dresser (no offended) who pose as such out there. but I also notice that most of you haven't any idea how to find, approach or keep the interest of one. so i have some following helpful hints to keep in mind.
- Ladyboys are not men...in any way!
There are a lot of ways to put this, and in fact ways to be more specifically accurate, but this seems important for many of you to keep in mind; we are simply women. Just like your ex-girlfriend, your sister, your mother or even that bitch you work with that never shuts up. What I mean is, while we come in all shapes, sizes and types, we're just women...and treating us any different than you would any other women, showing us any less respect than you would any other woman, expecting us to react any different than any other woman (especially to inappropriate comments, questions or behavior) is apt to garner nothing but our ire and disdain. Those of us who are legitimate ladyboys are especially sensitive to all this as so many men don't know this and approach us so inappropriately. In fact, if you find that a supposed ladyboy is talking highly sexual in the early going, then there's a good chance that you're just talking to a guy...be he a cross dresser or not, and while on that subject…
There are a lot of ways to put this, and in fact ways to be more specifically accurate, but this seems important for many of you to keep in mind; we are simply women. Just like your ex-girlfriend, your sister, your mother or even that bitch you work with that never shuts up. What I mean is, while we come in all shapes, sizes and types, we're just women...and treating us any different than you would any other women, showing us any less respect than you would any other woman, expecting us to react any different than any other woman (especially to inappropriate comments, questions or behavior) is apt to garner nothing but our ire and disdain. Those of us who are legitimate ladyboys are especially sensitive to all this as so many men don't know this and approach us so inappropriately. In fact, if you find that a supposed ladyboy is talking highly sexual in the early going, then there's a good chance that you're just talking to a guy...be he a cross dresser or not, and while on that subject…
- Do not expect your dating relationship with a ladyboy to be any different than with any other woman!
In other words, unless she is an anomaly and a complete slut, she is unlikely to put out on the first few dates. Don't expect otherwise, and don't be surprised that the dinner and drinks you bought her isn't the price into her pants. Be a gentleman and she will be a lady.
Ultimately, it all comes down to respect, guys. Respect her as you would any other woman, and if your response to that is that you treat all women like they're whores, then expect only the whores to be interested. Personally, I think a few more of you should just go that direction anyhow. There are many reliable escort agencies which handle some beautiful ladyboys who are happy to be whatever you desire. If those of you that just seek hookups did so, it would certainly make it easier for the rest of us.
Oh, and one more thing: Do not believe the outrageous lies of porn. Among other things, it's a fact that only hookers will "top" you. Legitimate transexual women haven't any interest in such a thing. Indeed this goes beyond my little rules about keeping sex talk out of things (so don't bring it up to the girl you are interested in), but it is amazing how many men just want to be penetrated.
In other words, unless she is an anomaly and a complete slut, she is unlikely to put out on the first few dates. Don't expect otherwise, and don't be surprised that the dinner and drinks you bought her isn't the price into her pants. Be a gentleman and she will be a lady.
Ultimately, it all comes down to respect, guys. Respect her as you would any other woman, and if your response to that is that you treat all women like they're whores, then expect only the whores to be interested. Personally, I think a few more of you should just go that direction anyhow. There are many reliable escort agencies which handle some beautiful ladyboys who are happy to be whatever you desire. If those of you that just seek hookups did so, it would certainly make it easier for the rest of us.
Oh, and one more thing: Do not believe the outrageous lies of porn. Among other things, it's a fact that only hookers will "top" you. Legitimate transexual women haven't any interest in such a thing. Indeed this goes beyond my little rules about keeping sex talk out of things (so don't bring it up to the girl you are interested in), but it is amazing how many men just want to be penetrated.
My advice? Be a man, own up to what you really want and find someone who will have interest in doing that to you: Another man. Otherwise, treat the lady as a lady.
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