You might know that ladyboy and money are two matters that can’t be taken away from each other. Being a ladyboy takes money for a lot of things (surgery, hormones, clothes, make up…). And many ladyboys are or used to be sex workers, so they highly involve money in their relationships with men..
But We also have to consider about the real fact why most ladyboys are working as Prostitutes or uneducated? The answer is because at some points, society doesn’t accept them. If Society can be possible giving a decent job, I am sure they are not just dependent like that.
Well, Should you support your ladyboy girlfriend?. It’s all up to you. I personally believe that work is big part of every human’s life. It makes you busy, teaches you the real value of money, you know, the money that you work hard to get, and what it takes to treat yourself with the latest smartphone or brandname products instead of getting it falling form the sky...Of course, your ladyboy girlfriend possibly earns much less money than you do, if she is an average worker in my country, her salary is around 150$ a month. Providing you earn around 1 500 $ a month, if you want to have the same lifestyle and live together, you’ll have to support her. you are earning 10 times more than your ladyboy girlfriend, and providing that you are living together and already pay for the rent and groceries, that’d be pointless to let your girlfriend work 8 hours a day for just pocket money to you. But to the extent that she stops working and gets bored at home? I don’t believe it’s right.
And what often happens when a ladyboy is bored at home, she simply gets out with her friends, dance in club and eventually have fun with other boys. It’s not what you want for your future wife, do you? And it’s not what she wants either, but you know, when you’re bored… you lose your mind quick.
My point is, in my opinion, it’s not good for a person to be idle. Work is part of every human’s life, and it’s part of us, it’s part of what makes us humans and good humans. People who don’t work end up feeling like shit, like they’re useless and dependent on others. If it’s not possible for her to work (like if your ex-girlfriend was a prostitute and you don’t want her to continue), you can still do something. You can support her to resume her studies if she hasn’t any degree yet, or you can support her to set up a small business (be careful on that one though, never set up a business in Asia with someone you don’t FULLY trust!)
Possibilities to keep her busy, productive and eventually happy and healthy. Just don’t let her fall in the trap of the easy life, or if she is expecting it, maybe think twice before committing to that one girl
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