Want to keep your LB girl friend interested in you for long term relationship?

   Long Term Relationship is a relationship between a guy and a girl included Ladyboy that is based around strong mutual attraction on the physical, mental, and possibly even spiritual levels. It involves the concept of "love" and the desire to be with someone you care very highly about for a long time - possibly for the whole of your lives. It is not something to jump into lightly, but it can have very rewarding aspects to it and (if you choose your partner wisely) will lead you to a level of contentment unlike you have ever experienced before.

 

If you want to keep your lady, and not be cast upon the broken-hearted heap of lovers she’s left behind, you must get her invested in your relationship. It doesn’t matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn’t have something invested in you and the relationship, preferably quite alot INVESTED, she’ll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along. And I hate to break it to you, friend, but there’s always someone a little more "interesting" just around the corner.

 

So what exactly do we mean by getting her to invest in your relationship?

 

- The first and most important area you want to focus on is EFFORT. You must get her to invest effort into your relationship.

Basically let her, ask her, or prompt her if necessary, to do things for you — from time to time. Don’t always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don’t always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
And, I need to point this out, it should not be difficult to get her to do these things for you. You don’t have to trick her or force her to do anything. In fact, if she really likes you, she will offer, and actually enjoy, doing things for you.

 

- Second, you can also up her investment in you by getting her to spend some of her OWN hard-earned MONEY during the course of your relationship.
Let her pay for dinner once in a while, or buy the movie tickets, or pick up the pizza on her way over (and you don’t pay her back). You should not be paying for everything. She should be paying for quite a lot actually. And this has nothing to do with this being the 21st century, and women being equal to men, and making just as much money, and blah blah blah.
This has to do with upping her investment in you and decreasing the probability that she will move onto someone else as soon as you do something just a little bit annoying.

 

- And third, you can also up her investment by getting her to invest TIME into your relationship. Time, in this instance, means that you and her frequently do things that you want to do.
You don’t always do exactly what she wants. Once in a while, you insist on going to your favorite restaurant, or to the ballgame, or out with your idiotic, obnoxious friends. There’s no investment of time on her part if you’re always doing things that she wants to do. Heck, if you weren’t around, she’d probably be doing those same things with someone else. It’s only an investment if it’s something that she doesn’t want to do or wouldn’t normally do if you weren’t around (which doesn’t necessarily mean she won’t enjoy it).
which on the surface looks like a very very bad idea, going to increase or decrease her attraction toward you?
Well, if it’s the first or second date, you’re history. Sayonara, Baby. Don’t call her cause she won’t be calling you.
But if it’s the 5th date, or the 10th date, or the 30th date, it might actually work to your advantage. Why? Because you’ve gotten her to invest some of her precious time into your relationship. You weren’t doing what she wanted to do... that night anyway. You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to occasionally do things that you like to do.

You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it’s going to cost her something : time, effort, money.

 

You see, as I’ve mentioned above, rather than thinking things through very clearly before we act, we often do things and then rationalize our behaviors afterward. You want her to look back weeks, months, or years down the road, and realize that she’s really done a lot for you. That she’s spent a lot of money during the course of your relationship. That she’s got a lot of time and life invested in you.

And that she wouldn’t have done any of that stuff if she didn’t like you - A LOT!