What type of man do Ladyboys like

This is the type of advice. Even though there is a common “type of man” for Ladyboys, be reminded that the best way to score in a Ladyb’s heart is by being honest. There is not one ladyboy who hasn’t been heartbroken very bad (like very bad: men who can’t assume to hold her hand in public, men who promise to visit her in her country but never come, men who disappear right after they had sex with her...)

If you can show that you are worthy, genuine and honest about your intentions of being serious to her, then you are the type of men that Ladyboys are dreaming for. And I mean it. If you can show that you’re seriously a potential long term partner, you’re in the top 10%. And it doesn’t matter if you’re tall, short, skinny, fat, young or old... A ladyboy would choose an old average man who is serious, over an Calvin Klein model who just wants to play.

 

What’s the type of man for a Ladyboy

I don’t generalise, but I can draw some statistics and usually these are traits that a Ladyboy is looking for and finds attractive:

 

 - Ladyboys like gentlemen: You can’t imagine how some people treat them bad every day. Be a gentleman and treat them like the wonderful women they are. You'll score.

- Ladyboys like alpha males: men who are in command. They want to follow, be submissive to you, and be protected. Transgenders are strong women, they go through tough challenges, but they want a man to protect them in the long term.

- Ladyboys like men who are open and available: They want a man who is ready to commit, present her to his friends, and is able to hold her hand in public.

- Ladyboys like men who are supportive and comprehensive: Transitioning is an every day challenge, they need a supportive partner. It doesn’t necessarily imply money, moral support is important.

 

So, What type of person you are... and what type of Ladyboy you are looking for... ( give me some hints)

Can Ladyboys who working as a Bargirl seriously fall in love?

First of all let me define the word “Bar girl” is a woman who works as a hostess or dancer in bars to provide company or sexual services to patrons, Bar girls sometimes get a commission on drinks bought by their customers and a percentage of the escort fee (bar fine) paid by any customer who wishes to take them out of the bar at that night.

Like any working girl in any job, she views her work dispassionately. It is something she does to make money. It makes no difference to her how many men she has to sleep with to make the money, just as a secretary doesn't count the number of documents she types up in a day. Having sex with men is just a job for bar girls.

She may enjoy her work, although if she even can speak english a little but enough to open conversations and you get to know some of the bar girls most will tell you that they hate the job but they do it because it's the best way they know how to make good money due to their lack of education, can hardly find jobs that pay any better... Acctually most bar girls do pretty much enjoy their job. Most ladies already have friends or relatives working in the same bar. Aside from the important "money factor," physically it's definitely not a tough job - chatting with customers, enjoying "lady drinks", playing pool...

Lots of bar girls even believe that they may meet a man and really fall in love, although this is a very remote possibility if the girl has been on the game for more than a few months. As someone says "You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl."

Just remember that "falling in love" to a Thai bar girl doesn't mean the same as you understand. She's told you she loves you? you are handsome or miss you so much...  She may well do...in her own bar girl fashion ( all bar girls learn from the same book). To a Thai girl, especially a bar girl, falling in love means that she has found someone who will support her. Of course she loves you but she loves your money too. Eventually...when you have no more to give. There is more truth in the joke T-shirt slogan "No Money, No Honey". Of course, if you manage to find a decent (not a bar) girl who has properly job she may also genuinely love you. But it is probably going to be tempered by how well you can support her. 
Well, how many prostitutes do actually fall in love with their clients? Not too many, correct? As every woman, The bar girls have a heart too, which they're capable of giving away. However, their choice for a long-term boyfriend or potential future husband generally depends on the chosen one's financial background and his readiness to "take care" for her and her family (e.g. build a house in the village, support her parents, kids etc. financially.) In other words, the financial aspect usually plays a decisive role in determining whether a bar girl will enter a more serious relationship with a man.

As long as you remember that she is working in a bar to make money, and that you are one of her revenue streams, you will be well on the way to staying sane. Don't try to 'save her from a life of degradation'. She doesn't feel her lifestyle is degrading, just as that secretary in an office doesn't feel her job is degrading. It's a job for your sweet little bar girl. That's it.

So pay her bar fine, take her back to your hotel, have all the fun you like, tell her how much you love her if you like. She may even tell you the same.

If you are tempted to take the relationship further and you actually want to marry her, ask yourself this Would you marry this girl if you had met her in a strip club? Would you take her home to meet your family? Will you be able to marry her and not think about all the men who were there before you?

Don't try to tell me that she is different. She isn't. She's just another bar girl...some men are just plain gullible, but I have to admit that's easy to understand when a clever beautiful ambitious sexy young thing is bringing everything to bear on making you happy and trying to get you to fall in love with her.

To anyone who has found true love in the bar ,this is not aimed at you ,best of luck .

Want to keep your LB girl friend interested in you for long term relationship?

   Long Term Relationship is a relationship between a guy and a girl included Ladyboy that is based around strong mutual attraction on the physical, mental, and possibly even spiritual levels. It involves the concept of "love" and the desire to be with someone you care very highly about for a long time - possibly for the whole of your lives. It is not something to jump into lightly, but it can have very rewarding aspects to it and (if you choose your partner wisely) will lead you to a level of contentment unlike you have ever experienced before.

 

If you want to keep your lady, and not be cast upon the broken-hearted heap of lovers she’s left behind, you must get her invested in your relationship. It doesn’t matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn’t have something invested in you and the relationship, preferably quite alot INVESTED, she’ll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along. And I hate to break it to you, friend, but there’s always someone a little more "interesting" just around the corner.

 

So what exactly do we mean by getting her to invest in your relationship?

 

- The first and most important area you want to focus on is EFFORT. You must get her to invest effort into your relationship.

Basically let her, ask her, or prompt her if necessary, to do things for you — from time to time. Don’t always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don’t always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
And, I need to point this out, it should not be difficult to get her to do these things for you. You don’t have to trick her or force her to do anything. In fact, if she really likes you, she will offer, and actually enjoy, doing things for you.

 

- Second, you can also up her investment in you by getting her to spend some of her OWN hard-earned MONEY during the course of your relationship.
Let her pay for dinner once in a while, or buy the movie tickets, or pick up the pizza on her way over (and you don’t pay her back). You should not be paying for everything. She should be paying for quite a lot actually. And this has nothing to do with this being the 21st century, and women being equal to men, and making just as much money, and blah blah blah.
This has to do with upping her investment in you and decreasing the probability that she will move onto someone else as soon as you do something just a little bit annoying.

 

- And third, you can also up her investment by getting her to invest TIME into your relationship. Time, in this instance, means that you and her frequently do things that you want to do.
You don’t always do exactly what she wants. Once in a while, you insist on going to your favorite restaurant, or to the ballgame, or out with your idiotic, obnoxious friends. There’s no investment of time on her part if you’re always doing things that she wants to do. Heck, if you weren’t around, she’d probably be doing those same things with someone else. It’s only an investment if it’s something that she doesn’t want to do or wouldn’t normally do if you weren’t around (which doesn’t necessarily mean she won’t enjoy it).
which on the surface looks like a very very bad idea, going to increase or decrease her attraction toward you?
Well, if it’s the first or second date, you’re history. Sayonara, Baby. Don’t call her cause she won’t be calling you.
But if it’s the 5th date, or the 10th date, or the 30th date, it might actually work to your advantage. Why? Because you’ve gotten her to invest some of her precious time into your relationship. You weren’t doing what she wanted to do... that night anyway. You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to occasionally do things that you like to do.

You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it’s going to cost her something : time, effort, money.

 

You see, as I’ve mentioned above, rather than thinking things through very clearly before we act, we often do things and then rationalize our behaviors afterward. You want her to look back weeks, months, or years down the road, and realize that she’s really done a lot for you. That she’s spent a lot of money during the course of your relationship. That she’s got a lot of time and life invested in you.

And that she wouldn’t have done any of that stuff if she didn’t like you - A LOT!

Should you support your ladyboy girlfriend?

You might know that ladyboy and money are two matters that can’t be taken away from each other. Being a ladyboy takes money for a lot of things (surgery, hormones, clothes, make up…). And many ladyboys are or used to be sex workers, so they highly involve money in their relationships with men..
But We also have to consider about the real fact why most ladyboys are working as Prostitutes or uneducated? The answer is because at some points, society doesn’t accept them. If Society can be possible giving a decent job, I am sure they are not just dependent like that.
Well, Should you support your ladyboy girlfriend?. It’s all up to you. I personally believe that work is big part of every human’s life. It makes you busy, teaches you the real value of money, you know, the money that you work hard to get, and what it takes to treat yourself with the latest smartphone or brandname products instead of getting it falling form the sky...Of course, your ladyboy girlfriend possibly earns much less money than you do, if she is an average worker in my country, her salary is around 150$ a month. Providing you earn around 1 500 $ a month, if you want to have the same lifestyle and live together, you’ll have to support her. you are earning 10 times more than your ladyboy girlfriend, and providing that you are living together and already pay for the rent and groceries, that’d be pointless to let your girlfriend work 8 hours a day for just pocket money to you. But to the extent that she stops working and gets bored at home? I don’t believe it’s right.
And what often happens when a ladyboy is bored at home, she simply gets out with her friends, dance in club and eventually have fun with other boys. It’s not what you want for your future wife, do you? And it’s not what she wants either, but you know, when you’re bored… you lose your mind quick.
My point is, in my opinion, it’s not good for a person to be idle. Work is part of every human’s life, and it’s part of us, it’s part of what makes us humans and good humans. People who don’t work end up feeling like shit, like they’re useless and dependent on others. If it’s not possible for her to work (like if your ex-girlfriend was a prostitute and you don’t want her to continue), you can still do something. You can support her to resume her studies if she hasn’t any degree yet, or you can support her to set up a small business (be careful on that one though, never set up a business in Asia with someone you don’t FULLY trust!)
Possibilities to keep her busy, productive and eventually happy and healthy. Just don’t let her fall in the trap of the easy life, or if she is expecting it, maybe think twice before committing to that one girl

Helpful Hints to Meeting a Ladyboy

 I hear a lot of men on dating site who say they want to meet a nice, real ladyboy, but they're tired of all the hookers and cross dresser (no offended) who pose as such out there. but I also notice that most of you haven't any idea how to find, approach or keep the interest of one. so i have some following helpful hints to keep in mind.

- Ladyboys are not men...in any way!
There are a lot of ways to put this, and in fact ways to be more specifically accurate, but this seems important for many of you to keep in mind; we are simply women. Just like your ex-girlfriend, your sister, your mother or even that bitch you work with that never shuts up. What I mean is, while we come in all shapes, sizes and types, we're just women...and treating us any different than you would any other women, showing us any less respect than you would any other woman, expecting us to react any different than any other woman (especially to inappropriate comments, questions or behavior) is apt to garner nothing but our ire and disdain. Those of us who are legitimate ladyboys are especially sensitive to all this as so many men don't know this and approach us so inappropriately. In fact, if you find that a supposed ladyboy is talking highly sexual in the early going, then there's a good chance that you're just talking to a guy...be he a cross dresser or not, and while on that subject… 

- Do not expect your dating relationship with a ladyboy to be any different than with any other woman!
In other words, unless she is an anomaly and a complete slut, she is unlikely to put out on the first few dates. Don't expect otherwise, and don't be surprised that the dinner and drinks you bought her isn't the price into her pants. Be a gentleman and she will be a lady.
Ultimately, it all comes down to respect, guys. Respect her as you would any other woman, and if your response to that is that you treat all women like they're whores, then expect only the whores to be interested. Personally, I think a few more of you should just go that direction anyhow. There are many reliable escort agencies which handle some beautiful ladyboys who are happy to be whatever you desire. If those of you that just seek hookups did so, it would certainly make it easier for the rest of us.
Oh, and one more thing: Do not believe the outrageous lies of porn. Among other things, it's a fact that only hookers will "top" you. Legitimate transexual women haven't any interest in such a thing. Indeed this goes beyond my little rules about keeping sex talk out of things (so don't bring it up to the girl you are interested in), but it is amazing how many men just want to be penetrated.

My advice? Be a man, own up to what you really want and find someone who will have interest in doing that to you: Another man. Otherwise, treat the lady as a lady.

THE TS GIRL & HIS FAMILY

As a straight guy with friends and family who might not be supportive or understanding about having a TS girlfriend, how does one deal with this issue? While I understand the fact that it's no one's business but ours, there is always the issue of getting her "clocked," etc. It may be reasonable to say, "If your friends don't understand, they shouldn't be your friends." But what about family?

 

You face one of the toughest issues a ladyboy or her boyfriend/lover ever faces -- family! Unfortunately there is no easy answer, but you already knew that or you wouldn't be asking the question.
First and foremost, I would hope that you have a feeling for what their reactions will be, what they can handle and what they can't. If they have met her and like her, that certainly would make it easier, too. The fact that they love you and that you love her would also help them deal with this issue.

There are a number of approaches: 1. Say nothing and hope no one notices. 2. Face the issue upfront, head on and let the cards fall where they may. 3. Feel them out on the issue first without letting on she's a TS, then decide how to best handle it. But no matter how you decide, what it will all come down to is they will either accept her or they won't. If they don't, then YOU have a very hard choice to make, her or your family.
Should the outcome be something less than perfect, remember people have the capacity to change, especially when they love you and you love them. Show them the love you have in your heart for her, even if it takes a while, the chances are good they will eventually accept her.
This may not be an issue with your girl (you did mention her being "clocked"), but I'm throwing it out for what it's worth. I was once told that what you project from inside you into the world is what the world will see. Taking that to heart when I discovered I was a girl, I decided from the very beginning that the female inside me would be projected into the world.
Despite how I looked, especially at the beginning, I was confident in my womanhood and I let that confidence show whenever I went out. Surprisingly, it worked! The world saw a person confident in her female self and accepted me from the very beginning. Lucky? Sure there was some of that but I truly believe that the confidence I felt in my womanhood is what made it all work

Can't Find a Girlfriend? Get a New Girlfriend! Consider a Ladyboy?

If you're looking to get a girlfriend, one type of female you might have not previously considered is the transsexual woman. Your first reaction might be confusion and that‘s normal, but think about it. What makes a woman?

Many men have told me they actually prefer to date transsexual females because they are very feminine, sexy, pretty and they seem to relate to them better. Their strength of character for what they have to face makes them incredible women. They aren't some horrific vision of a man in drag. They are women, soft and lovely and worth a second look as you search for a new girlfriend. 

Some guys maybe thinking "Find a girlfriend who is TS, it can mean great sex"

Some guys have even gone so far as to tell me that the physical experience is beyond anything they could have hoped for. Like any relationship, intimate issues should be discussed privately between the two people. What’s right for one may not be right for another. When it comes to sexual chemistry, like any other relationship, it depends on what feels right for the both of you. Some couples are very interested in initiating all options, some take it slower. Do what’s right for you. We want to be seen simply as women, no different than any other. That’s how we like to be treated. 

Take it at your own pace. A person is not the sum of their body parts. Some TS girls are pre-op (before having Sex Reassignment Surgery), some are post-op and some are non-op. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to but if you do, she’s the girl and you’re the guy regardless of what happens in bed. It’s that simple. Most girls are comfortable in the traditional female role.